You’ve already tried hosting an exchange student. If you’re like most AYUSA host families, it probably changed your routine in the best way. You got to see your home and hometown through someone else’s eyes, maybe picked up a few new words, and had some truly memorable dinners.
Maybe there were some hard moments and tough conversations (life is never perfect!), but at the end of the year, you knew your heart was changed forever. So why not do it all again? Each student is different, and every year brings something totally new to your family.
In this guide, we’ll explain why it’s worth considering repeat-hosting, and what you need to know about welcoming another exchange student into your home. We’ll cover:
- What it means to be a foreign exchange student host
- The immediate benefits of hosting a high school exchange student
- The long-term benefits of hosting multiple exchange students
- How hosting benefits your family and community over time
- How to start your journey as an exchange student host with AYUSA
Whether you’ve hosted before or are just considering it for the first time, read on to learn why opening your doors again and again could be one of the most meaningful decisions your family ever makes. Or, if you’re ready to jump in, start your AYUSA hosting application here.
What It Means to Be a Foreign Exchange Student Host
Opening your home to a foreign exchange student is about providing a welcoming, supportive environment where a young person from another country can thrive during their time in the United States. As a foreign exchange student host, you play a central role in shaping a student’s experience, acting as a cultural guide, mentor, and family away from home.
While the idea of hosting might seem like a big commitment, thousands of U.S. families find the experience so rewarding that they choose to do it year after year. But before diving into the long-term benefits, it helps to understand what hosting really involves and how the program is designed to support both students and host families.
A Quick Overview of the Program
Foreign exchange student programs bring high school students from around the world to the U.S. for a semester or academic year in America, allowing them to immerse themselves in U.S. culture while attending a local school. AYUSA exchange students are typically between 15 and 18 years old and are carefully selected based on academic performance, maturity, and motivation.
As a host family in the USA, your main job is to:
- Provide a safe and welcoming home environment
- Offer a bed, meals, and basic transportation
- Include the student in your everyday family life
- Support them emotionally as they adjust to life in a new country
You’re not expected to be a tour guide or a 24/7 entertainment source; just a stable, caring presence that helps a young person learn and grow in a new cultural setting. All students arrive with at least basic English skills, and many become fluent over the course of their stay thanks to school immersion and home conversations.
Exchange students, in turn, bring their own culture, language, and traditions into your household throughout their academic year in America. This mutual exchange is the heart of the experience, sparking curiosity, empathy, and lifelong learning for everyone involved, as the O’Brien family in Missouri discovered:
“Our involvement with Ayusa has changed our lives. So has Marie, so has her family. What an amazing experience it has been, one that will continue for a lifetime, forever tying our hearts and our worlds together. Marie is our daughter – rounding our family to a six pack with two boys and two girls (plus Mom and Dad, of course). We can’t wait to see what other journeys the rest of our time together will send our way.”
Hosting Through an Approved Exchange Organization
In the U.S., student exchange programs must be overseen by U.S. Department of State-designated organizations, like AYUSA. This way, both students and host families are protected and supported throughout the experience. AYUSA is responsible for:
- Recruiting and screening students
- Vetting and training host families
- Matching students with suitable homes
- Providing orientations for students, families, and schools
- Offering in-person local support throughout the exchange period
- Monitoring the placement to ensure student and family well-being
When you choose AYUSA, you gain access to a wide network of experienced professionals who can help you navigate any questions or challenges that arise. We offer 24/7 emergency support, regular check-ins, and do everything we can to make your hosting experience a success.
The Immediate Benefits of Hosting a Foreign Exchange Student
Hosting foreign exchange students can be one of the most rewarding decisions your family makes. While many host families choose to welcome students year after year, the rewards begin immediately, from the moment your first student walks through the door. Whether it’s sharing meals, celebrating holidays, or having everyday conversations, hosting offers unique opportunities to learn, connect, and grow together. Here are some of the most impactful benefits AYUSA families often experience right away.
Cultural Exchange and Global Perspective
When you become a host family for an international student, your world expands. Hosting creates a daily opportunity for cultural exchange, allowing your family to experience new languages, traditions, foods, and worldviews without leaving your living room! For example:
- Kids and adults alike learn firsthand about different customs, values, and celebrations
- Dinner conversations become richer as you explore everything from global politics to pop culture
- You gain a deeper understanding of global issues through a personal lens
For many families who host a student, this exposure sparks greater empathy and curiosity about the world. Children who grow up around exchange students often become more open-minded and globally aware, and hosting can even inspire interest in studying abroad, learning a new language, or pursuing international careers.
The Stouffer family experienced this first-hand when one of their own kids went to Egypt to visit their exchange sibling’s family:
“This is our third year hosting a double placement with Ayusa. We have hosted six students with them from Egypt, Turkey, Japan, France, Spain and Italy. We already have our two students picked for next year from Germany and the Netherlands.
We have been very happy with AYUSA, the support they give and the quality and selection of students. Our family has enjoyed hosting! All of our students become like family. So much so that our daughter went to Egypt last summer and stayed with our exchange student's family for a month.”
A Chance to Make Lifelong Connections
One of the most beautiful outcomes of hosting is the bond that often forms between students and their host families. Even though the official program may last just a semester or academic year, the relationships forged often last a lifetime.
Many families stay in touch with their former exchange students for years, through letters, video calls, reunions, or even visits abroad. Some families describe their exchange students as “bonus children” or “global sons and daughters.” As the Struble family learned when welcoming Julia to their Nevada home, it didn’t take long for those bonds to form:
“Julia is a great example of a mature Ayusa exchange student who is adaptable, has bonded with her host family, and is making the most of her year in the USA. We are so thankful for the Ayusa experience and for the special moments we continue to share with her.”
Community and School Engagement
When you host an international student, it deepens your connection to your local school and community. Students attend nearby high schools, participate in extracurricular activities, and often volunteer or get involved in local events.
Your child’s school gains an international presence that can enhance classroom discussions and school culture, and local sports teams, clubs, and host family events offer new ways to get involved and meet people. As the Bray family explains, it’s incredible to be part of AYUSA’s exchange community:
“We’ve been hosting with Ayusa for 9 years, and while not every experience has been perfect (because real life rarely is!), the support we've received from our local coordinator and Regional Support Specialist has always been top-tier. They are the reason we’ve felt confident opening our hearts and home year after year.
What really sets Ayusa apart is the community. Our CRs go above and beyond — organizing activities not just for students but for host families too (Host Parent Night Out? Yes, please!). Those moments build real connections and lifelong memories.
We’ve hosted with other organizations in the past, but once we found Ayusa, we knew we found our people. The support, the heart, and the commitment to cultural exchange are unmatched.”
The Long-Term Benefits of Hosting Multiple Exchange Students
The benefits of hosting a high school exchange student multiply when families choose to host again and again. Each new student brings a fresh perspective, a different culture, and a unique story. Here’s what makes long-term hosting so enriching.
Becoming a Global Family
Every time you welcome a new exchange student into your home, you’re expanding your family in the most meaningful sense. International student exchange helps you build lasting relationships with students from a variety of countries, each adding to your family’s cultural diversity.
Plus, if you have your own children, they grow up with international “siblings,” learning to see the world through multiple lenses. Eventually, your family may feel just as at home in Berlin, Tokyo, or São Paulo as you do in your own neighborhood!
Deepening Your Understanding of the World
Each exchange student brings not just their culture, but their personal experiences, beliefs, and perspectives to the exchange student program. Hosting multiple students over the years gives your family the chance to see the world through many different lenses.
You begin to notice the nuances and differences within global cultures. You might become an expert in the friendly rivalry between Sweden and Denmark, or understand the vast differences between neighboring countries like Spain and Portugal. Your family becomes more informed, empathetic, and adaptable in an increasingly interconnected world, in a way that can’t be replicated in a classroom or from a textbook.
Hosting Gets Easier (and More Impactful) Each Year
Like any new experience, the first year of hosting an international student may involve a learning curve, as you adjust to new schedules, cultural differences, or changes in your routines. But with each new student, you become more confident, flexible, and skilled as a host family.
You’ll have a better idea of how to prepare your home, understand how to communicate with your exchange students, and come up with some strategies to help avoid homesickness and culture shock. As some of the challenges of hosting fade away, you have more time and energy to what makes it so special: sharing cultures with incredible young adults from around the world.
A Legacy of Hospitality and Global Citizenship
For many families, hosting becomes part of who they are. It influences how their children grow up, the values they hold, and the kind of community they help build. Children raised in long-term host families often go on to study abroad, volunteer internationally, or pursue careers with a global focus.
Hosting teaches empathy, openness, and a willingness to step outside your comfort zone; all qualities that last a lifetime. And as your students go on to become adults, professionals, and even parents, your influence continues to ripple outward, helping shape a more open and interconnected world.
How Hosting Benefits Your Family and Community Over Time
Over time, student cultural exchange leaves a lasting mark on your children, strengthens the cultural awareness of your local community, and can even inspire others to take part. Here’s how being a foreign exchange student host helps create a better future for your family and the wider world around you.
Teaching Kids Lifelong Values
One of the most powerful aspects of hosting is the effect it has on your children. Growing up in a home that consistently welcomes international students via a study abroad program instills a wide range of character-building values, such as empathy, open-mindedness, and compassion, that stick with them long after the exchange students have gone home.
Boosting Cultural Literacy in Your Community
Long-term hosting helps shape communities that are more globally aware, inclusive, and connected. When a student joins your family to study abroad in the USA, they also become part of your local school, sports team, and social network.
Schools benefit from more diverse classroom discussions and increased exposure to global issues, and students are more engaged in international issues when they have friends and classmates that come from different parts of the world.
Over the years, your repeated participation in exchange programs helps normalize cultural exchange in your community. The result? A more globally literate neighborhood where cultural diversity is seen as a strength and curiosity is always welcomed.
Inspiring Others to Host
Perhaps one of the most powerful ways hosting makes a difference is by inspiring others to follow your lead. Many families are curious about hosting but hesitant to take the first step. Seeing someone they know open their home, and hearing about the positive experiences, can make all the difference. When you host multiple students:
- You become a role model for what successful hosting can look like
- Your stories and insights can help demystify the process for others who are interested
- Your friends, coworkers, or fellow parents are encouraged to welcome a student of their own
By sharing your journey, whether over coffee, at a school event, or on social media, you help others imagine themselves as part of this life-changing experience.
How to Become a Foreign Exchange Student Host
Thousands of American families join high school exchange programs in the USA as host families each year, and more international students are studying here than ever before. Starting the process of becoming a host family is easier than you might think, especially when you’re partnered with AYUSA and supported at every step. Here’s how to start your journey as a foreign exchange student host.
Finding the Right Exchange Organization
Many host families find that the exchange organization they choose to host through has a big impact on their overall experience. If you work with an organization that’s supportive, encouraging, and communicative, there’s a good chance you’ll love your hosting experience, and you’ll be back for more!
At AYUSA, we support our host families from day one. As a Department of State-designated organization, we comply with national safety and cultural standards and take all steps to keep you and your exchange student safe throughout the program. Our exchange students all speak English and must meet rigorous academic requirements to join the program.
When you choose AYUSA, you’re never on your own. Our local Community Representatives (CRs) offer in-person support whenever you need it, and regularly check in with your exchange student and their school to ensure things are going smoothly. They’re experienced, compassionate, and many have hosted students themselves, so they understand your position better than anyone.
What to Expect in the Application and Matching Process
Once you complete your AYUSA hosting application, we’ll meet with you and conduct a home visit to make sure you’re a good fit for the program and to better understand the type of student you’re looking for. All adult household members will be required to undergo a criminal background check, per U.S. Department of State requirements.
When you’re approved to host, you’ll have the chance to review multiple student applicants and select someone who you feel will mesh well with your family. After you match with a student, you’ll receive more information and begin preparing for their arrival, usually weeks or months in advance.
Start Your Hosting Journey With AYUSA Today!
While the rewards of hosting a student through their exchange year in the USA are immediate, the real magic happens over time. With each student you welcome, your family grows in compassion, understanding, and global perspective.
By choosing to host through AYUSA, you’re gaining access to a trusted, U.S. Department of State-designated exchange program and joining a supportive, passionate community of host families who believe in the power of cultural exchange. From your first match to your fifth year of hosting, AYUSA offers the guidance, support, and resources you need to thrive as a host family.
Whether you’re ready to host for the first time or you’re thinking about opening your doors again, now is the perfect time to begin. Your next great adventure, and your next global family member, is just around the corner! Complete your AYUSA hosting application to get started.