You don’t have to watch travel documentaries to hear stories about life in Germany, Brazil, or Japan. Every year, high school students from these countries, with their own stories, arrive in the United States. They come from different worlds but all have one thing in common: The need for a host family in the U.S.!
Hosting an exchange student is about providing the student a safe place to live and study while they’re in the United States, but there’s a lot more to it than that. There are so many benefits of hosting a foreign exchange student for schools, communities, and of course, host families themselves.
From the little moments, like teaching your student how to carve a pumpkin or cheering them on at their first football game, to the big ones, like watching your own kids grow more empathetic and curious about the world, hosting is full of (good!) surprises. In this guide, we’ll cover all the benefits of hosting, including:
- Cultural exchange (and why it’s so important)
- How hosting can benefit your parenting skills and strengthen family bonds
- Making lifelong connections from around the world
- Bringing new energy to your daily routines
Interested in opening your home to an exchange student? At AYUSA, we have an incredible selection of international high school students just waiting for their perfect host family in the U.S.! When you host an AYUSA student, you get an amazing new family member for a year AND you become part of a supportive, inclusive community of host families, schools, exchange students, and AYUSA staff.
Read on to learn why AYUSA families say hosting is the best decision they’ve ever made, or start your own journey today by completing our hosting application.
Cultural Exchange That Enriches Everyone
Hosting a foreign exchange student is like getting a front-row seat to another part of the world, without ever leaving your home! It’s not just your student who learns about American life and culture; your whole family gets the chance to discover new ways of thinking, new traditions, and new ways to connect.
The U.S. is a top destination for foreign exchange students, and host families reap a lot of the benefits. Let’s explore how this exchange enriches your household in real, meaningful ways.
Exposure to New Cultures and Perspectives
One of the biggest benefits of hosting is the exposure to a different culture, as your student brings a whole new set of traditions, holidays, foods, and ways of seeing the world. You might find yourself celebrating Diwali, Lunar New Year, or German Christmas traditions for the first time.
Your family dinners could include homemade dumplings, Brazilian cheese bread, or a delicious French dessert. Beyond food and holidays, you’ll also hear how school, family, and social life work in another country, and your student will likely be curious about how things work here, too. These everyday conversations naturally expand your worldview.
International student exchange helps everyone in your household become more curious, respectful, and appreciative of cultural differences. And for your own children, it can spark an early love for learning languages, studying geography, and traveling abroad someday.
Raising Globally Aware Kids
In a world that’s more connected than ever, raising globally aware kids is so important, and hosting a student is one of the most hands-on, impactful ways to do just that. Suddenly, world news isn’t just “something happening far away.” It becomes personal. Your family will care more about issues affecting your student’s home country because now you have a real connection there. That empathy and awareness can have a lasting impact on how your kids (and you!) view the world.
Hosting Strengthens Family Bonds and Parenting Skills
You might go into hosting an international student thinking you're doing something kind and generous for a student, and you are! But many host families are surprised to find out just how much they grow through the experience, too. Here’s how hosting a student can benefit your own family dynamics.
Finding New Ways to Communicate
When you host a high school exchange student, communication becomes more intentional. Whether you’re navigating a language barrier, helping your student understand cultural norms, or simply explaining why your family eats dinner at 6:00 p.m., every conversation becomes an opportunity to connect and grow.
You learn to listen more closely, ask thoughtful questions, and explain things in simpler, kinder ways, which are all essential tools for strong family relationships. Misunderstandings might happen now and then, but working through them with patience and empathy builds stronger bonds, not just with your student, but within your entire household.
Encourages Family Collaboration and Teamwork
Hosting international students naturally requires the whole family to work together. From setting expectations before your student arrives to figuring out chores, school transportation, or evening plans, everyone has a role to play.
Your kids might help with language practice, include your exchange student in social activities, or share their favorite music and movies. Parents often take on more of a mentorship role, guiding their student through things like school routines, American customs, or how to navigate their first Target run!
All of this promotes a stronger sense of unity and teamwork. AYUSA host families often describe feeling more connected, more organized, and more appreciative of one another’s contributions.
A New Perspective on Your Own Parenting Style
There’s something about stepping into a mentorship role with a new teenager that makes you pause and reflect on your own parenting. You may find yourself re-evaluating house rules, routines, or the way you resolve conflict. Hosting gives you a chance to revisit the values you want to teach, the tone you want to set in your home, and how you show support and structure.
It’s also a great reminder that every child is different, and that flexibility, cultural sensitivity, and emotional support go a long way in helping teens thrive. Many host parents walk away from the experience feeling more confident, more open-minded, and even more connected to their own kids as a result.
A Growth Experience for Your Kids, Too!
If you have children of your own, student cultural exchange is one of the most enriching experiences you can give them. Sharing their home with someone from a different country helps them develop empathy, patience, and a stronger sense of responsibility. For younger kids, it’s like gaining a new big brother or sister. For teens, it can mean a new best friend and a chance to step into a leadership role.
Your children will also learn to appreciate what they have, recognize the value of diversity, and become more curious about the world. They may even be inspired to travel, study abroad, or learn a new language down the road. Here’s how the O’Brien family in Missouri sums up hosting in AYUSA’s exchange student program:
“Our involvement with Ayusa has changed our lives. So has Marie, so has her family. What an amazing experience it has been, one that will continue for a lifetime, forever tying our hearts and our worlds together. Marie is our daughter – rounding our family to a six pack with two boys and two girls (plus Mom and Dad, of course). We can’t wait to see what other journeys the rest of our time together will send our way.”
Benefits of Hosting a Foreign Exchange Student: Making Lifelong Connections
If you’re hosting a student for their academic year in America, you might think the experience will only last for 10 months. It’s true that your exchange student will return home after the school year wraps up, but that certainly doesn’t mean your hosting journey comes to an end!
When you host, you open your heart for a lifetime. Most host families and their students stay in touch for years, and many even see each other again in person, whether in the U.S., the student’s home country, or somewhere in between.
Expand Your Global Family
One of the most beautiful (and unexpected) outcomes of hosting in foreign exchange student programs is gaining a new son or daughter, and sometimes even an entire extended family across the globe! Many host parents say their exchange student truly becomes part of the family, complete with inside jokes, family traditions, and holiday celebrations.
You might find yourself sending birthday gifts to Germany, getting invited to a wedding in Thailand, or welcoming your exchange student back for a visit, this time as a young adult. Some families even go on to visit their student’s home country, as the Stouffer family found:
“This is our third year hosting a double placement with Ayusa. We have hosted six students with them from Egypt, Turkey, Japan, France, Spain and Italy. We already have our two students picked for next year from Germany and the Netherlands.
We have been very happy with AYUSA, the support they give and the quality and selection of students. Our family has enjoyed hosting! All of our students become like family. So much so that our daughter went to Egypt last summer and stayed with our exchange student's family for a month.”
Cultural Bonds That Transcend Borders
Your foreign exchange student takes home a genuine, firsthand understanding of American life, shaped by love and laughter rather than textbooks or stereotypes. And in return, your family gains a window into a world you may have never explored otherwise.
These cultural bonds often continue to influence your family in small but powerful ways:
- You might develop new holiday traditions that stick with your family
- Maybe you’ll continue cooking your exchange student’s favorite traditional meals
- Your family may watch world news with a new interest and added compassion
- Your kids might be excited to learn a new language or travel overseas themselves
It’s not just about saying goodbye with a tearful hug at the end of the study abroad program. It’s about building something that stays with you (and your exchange student) for life.
Bring New Energy and Excitement Into Daily Life
Hosting a foreign exchange student is like hitting the refresh button on your everyday routine. Suddenly, the ordinary feels a little more exciting, and the moments you used to take for granted, like grabbing a milkshake or going to a high school football game, start to feel new again.
Your student brings a fresh perspective and contagious enthusiasm that can energize your household. Whether it's attending their first sports game or your first time trying their favorite home-cooked dish, hosting turns everyday life into a shared adventure.
Rediscover Your Own Community Through New Eyes
When you show your student around town, even regular places can feel more special, like the grocery store, your favorite café, or your local park. Watching your exchange student experience your community for the first time gives you a fresh appreciation for where you live.
You may find yourself finally checking out that local museum you’ve been meaning to visit, joining in on a community festival, or taking more weekend outings simply because you’re seeing everything through their eyes. Being a host family in the USA is like becoming a tourist in your own town, and you’re doing it alongside someone who’s excited to explore it with you!
Celebrate “Firsts” With Your Exchange Student
For exchange students who study abroad in the USA, the year is full of firsts! You might get to witness your student’s:
- First taste of s’mores
- First time seeing snow
- First high-school sports game
- First trick-or-treating experience
These simple, wholesome moments become highlights for your whole family. You’ll laugh together, take a million photos, and create memories you’ll all treasure forever.
Step Outside Your Comfort Zone
Being a host family for an international student isn’t always predictable, and that’s part of the magic. You’ll be introduced to new customs, traditions, and even ways of thinking that challenge your usual routines.
Maybe you’ll try a dish you can’t pronounce, listen to a new genre of music, or learn a few phrases in a foreign language. This gentle push outside your comfort zone leads to growth. You become more flexible, open-minded, and ready to embrace the unknown.
Sense of Purpose and Giving Back
There’s something deeply fulfilling about knowing you’re helping shape someone’s life. By opening your home, you’re giving a student the chance to experience a new culture, learn a new language, and build confidence in themselves, and that’s no small thing! As a host family in the USA, you’re helping someone grow, adapt, and thrive.
Exchange Student Hosting Benefits Beyond Your Home
There are a lot of benefits of hosting a foreign exchange student for your family, but the ripple effects stretch far beyond your front door. From your local school to your broader community, here’s what hosting an exchange student can do.
Add Diversity to Your Local School
When your exchange student attends your local high school, they become a cultural ambassador for their home country. Their presence, and student exchange programs in general, introduces classmates and teachers to new ways of thinking, traditions, and worldviews.
They might give a presentation about their home country, share a dish during an international potluck, or strike up conversations that broaden someone else’s horizons. In classrooms that are increasingly focused on global citizenship and cross-cultural understanding, their impact is invaluable. It helps cultivate empathy, curiosity, and appreciation for other cultures right where it matters most: in our schools.
Spark Community Engagement
High school exchange programs in the USA can also serve as a bridge between your family and the larger community. As a host family, you might find yourself connecting with other host families, attending international events, or getting involved in cultural exchange programs you didn’t even know about!
Sometimes, your neighbors or extended family members become curious about your experience and start asking questions, or even considering hosting themselves. Your exchange student might join a local sports team, volunteer in the neighborhood, or participate in community events that foster new friendships and bring people together.
Exchange students also bring significant economic growth with them. Data from NAFSA estimates that high school and college exchange students contributed $43.8 billion and supported 378,175 jobs to the U.S. economy during the 2023-2024 academic year.
Unlock the Benefits of Hosting a Foreign Exchange Student with AYUSA
If you’re feeling inspired to take the next step, good news! Becoming a host family with AYUSA is easier than you might think. Here’s what you need to know about getting started, and how we’ll support you every step of the way.
Eligibility Criteria: Who Can Host?
You don’t need to be a “traditional” family to become a host family. AYUSA welcomes all kinds of households, whether you’re a single adult, a couple with or without kids, a retiree, or a multigenerational family. Here are the basic requirements to host:
- Be at least 25 years old
- Pass a background check
- Provide a safe, welcoming, and supportive home environment
- Offer a room (can be shared with a host sibling) and three meals a day
- Live in the U.S. and be able to organize transport for your student to school and activities
What matters most is your willingness to share your life, encourage your student, and approach hosting with an open mind.
How to Host: Step-By-Step Guide
Here’s how to start your hosting journey with AYUSA:
- Apply online: Start by filling out a short host family application on the AYUSA website. It’s free, easy, and only takes a few minutes.
- Speak with a Community Representative: Once your application is submitted, an AYUSA Community Representative (CR) will reach out to answer your questions, learn more about your family, and guide you through the next steps.
- Complete your background check and home visit: AYUSA will conduct a background check and a quick home visit to ensure your space is ready for hosting. Don’t worry, this is just to make sure you’re a safe, suitable host.
- Choose your student: You’ll get access to student profiles and can select someone who feels like a great match for your household, whether that’s a student who loves pets, plays the violin, or wants to experience small-town life.
Once matched, AYUSA will help you prepare for your student’s arrival, offering support and tips as the big day approaches!
AYUSA’s Support and Guidance
You’re never on your own with AYUSA. From day one, you’ll be paired with a local CR who serves as your go-to support system, offering help, encouragement, and a listening ear anytime you need it. It’s what makes us one of the best student exchange programs for host families! We also provide:
- 24/7 emergency support
- Ongoing check-ins and in-person student/family support
- Resources, training, and tips to help you thrive as a host
Plus, you’ll become part of a nationwide network of families who are just as passionate about cultural exchange as you are, as the Bray family found:
“We’ve been hosting with Ayusa for 9 years, and while not every experience has been perfect (because real life rarely is!), the support we've received from our local coordinator and Regional Support Specialist has always been top-tier. They are the reason we’ve felt confident opening our hearts and home year after year.
What really sets Ayusa apart is the community. Our CRs go above and beyond — organizing activities not just for students but for host families too (Host Parent Night Out? Yes, please!). Those moments build real connections and lifelong memories.
We’ve hosted with other organizations in the past, but once we found Ayusa, we knew we found our people. The support, the heart, and the commitment to cultural exchange are unmatched.”
Start Hosting Today and Discover the Benefits for Yourself!
From strengthening your family bonds and gaining a new perspective to making lifelong friendships and impacting your community, there’s so much to love about hosting an exchange student.
Whether you’re curious about other cultures, want to give your kids a global mindset, or are simply looking to make a meaningful difference, hosting is a powerful way to do it, and AYUSA makes the journey smooth, supported, and unforgettable.
So why wait? Take the first step, say “yes” to the adventure, and discover just how rewarding it can be to welcome the world into your home. Start your AYUSA hosting application here!