My homestay experience was soooo great. When my homestay partner Mushroom (her English nickname) picked me up with her father, I was so nervous. I was still with my friend Terry and her homestay partner WangYing (because they live in the same apartment complex as Mushroom's family). We dropped WangYing and Terry off at the complex, and her father, Mushroom and I went out to eat dinner.
Her father was very nice to me, and saw that I was really nervous. He told me to just relax and act like I'm home. But honestly, I couldn't act like I was home. During dinner, I had trouble eating chicken with my chopsticks, because the bone kept getting in the way. Mushroom and her father laughed a little, and told me to use my hands. I felt embarrassed. I was too scared to use my hands at first. But after a while I relaxed a bit and ate chicken with my hands. haha. That night I met her mother, coincidently she is one of the chemistry teachers at Mushroom's High School.
The next day was my first at High School in China!! I was SO excited and nervous at the same time! I remember waking up early and getting ready and making sure I looked okay and suitable, wondering all the possibilities for the day. There were so many. Would I make friends? Would the students like me? What if they all think I'm like an alien or something? Or shame me for not understanding Chinese when its my native culture? So many thoughts ran through my mind. But I was still so excited to make friends and see what school was all about here in China.
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Mushroom and I ate a very Chinese breakfast, noodle soup with leftover chicken from last night, and eggs. It was delicious. Her father was a very good cook. Her father drove Mushroom and me to school that day. We arrived at the front gate waiting for Susanna and her homestay partner (our own on-site coordinate Hailin's daughter Xiao Ying). We all went to class together and we already stuck out. Mushroom introduced me to her friends and told them all I was her American friend (meiguo de pengyou).
At the beginning of the first class, the teacher asked Susanna and I to introduce ourselves in the front of the class. Susanna and I were both pretty nervous. All we could basically say was "Nimen hao. Wo jiao Sunmingyi. Jinnian wo shi qi sui...Nimen hao. Wo jiao Liweiyi. Wo shi qi sui" which basically is "Hi. I'm Sunmingyi. This year I'm 17 years old… Hi. I'm Liweiyi. I'm 17 years old" And then we smiled, they clapped and we went back to our seats.
Class was quite boring, just like American classes. It wasn't THAT much different. I talked with Mushroom's classmate, Liyuheng aka Mikko. He seemed very eager to meet me and talk in English with me. During class I taught him some English and Spanish too! Only basic stuff, like… Hola, Adios, Como estas, bien. etc. Ha ha ha… it was fun teaching him. I wrote notes with him during class too. We also all spent lunch together and he gave me a tour of the campus. I made another friend too. His nickname in class was "Hua" Flower, cuz in their class he is the most beautiful guy. I found that really funny at first, to call a boy flower in the US would probably be insulting, but here it was fine! He also came to lunch with us.
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In English class, I got up and read a passage to the class. It was fun. Later, in the afternoon, Nick, his partner David, and I went to Wang Ying's and Terry's Class to watch their play performance of Merchant in Venice. It was really cute. Their students had pretty good English. We watched them and then watched the English teacher sing. After the play, students got up to sing in Chinese or English. They kept trying to get us to sing, but we were all too shy at first. I helped two girls sing English Songs, and in the end I sang a song too. I sang Back Here, by BBmak. It was embarrassing but fun too.
After school we played volleyball and basketball with Mikko and everyone else. When we went home, I met up with her mother and went to WangYing's house to make dumplings (jiao zi) with them. It was a lot of fun, we all tried to make funky designs with them without breaking them at the same time. We ate dinner with the homestay families and friends too. We took pictures with everyone too. Afterwards, we went to KARAOKE! it was so much fun! Nick and his homestay family and friends came too, and so did "Flower!" We all sang in English and Chinese. It was a great way for us to spend our last night with our homestay families. The karoake room was so big and fancy! All the kids sang while the parents talked, drank and used the internet ha ha ha. Flower gave me a book, about Yunnan and the 8 things that make it unique. Unfortunately it's in Chinese, so I cant understand most of it, but its the thought that counts, right? haha. I felt really touched when he gave it to me and very surprised. I gave him a big hug when we all left cuz I would never see him again. I was really sad and a lady asked me if I thought if he was "hen shuai," very handsome, and of course I said Hen shuai!
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We went home and that was the end of my day. My family let me call my family back in New York, and after that I had a shower and went to sleep. That night before I slept I wrote letters to all the new friends I made at school that day and to my homestay partner telling them how thankful I was for their kindness. I also gave them all my email so I could keep in touch with all of them. I miss them very much and hope to see them in the future sometime soon.